impotent rage, part 372

There’s a lot to be mad about lately, but I’ve got something specific stuck in my craw and I need to rant about it.

Yesterday morning I was listening to Morning Edition in the car, and they did a piece on the Country Music Awards, or CMAs, that had been televised the previous evening. They named off some people that got awards, but they also talked about how the Country Music Association, while organizing this year’s CMAs show, basically tried to put a gag order on people. They tried to tell journalists covering the show not to bring up guns, the mass shootings that have happened recently, or politics in general.

Because, you know, not talking about problems is the best method of resolving them. Obviously. 

The reporter went on to say that there was outcry from basically everybody, and that the Association ended up relenting, as well it should have. The story then turned to the various tributes that were performed at the CMAs in honor of the victims in Las Vegas and Texas. There was a clip of Eric Church singing a suitably emotional rendition of “Amazing Grace” to kick off the show, and one of Carrie Underwood singing some other hymn, with a mention of how her “voice turned to a whisper as the pictures of all 58 victims of the Las Vegas massacre flashed across a screen”, and the moment of silence that followed. Predictable trite thoughts-and-prayers stuff.

The report then pivoted to something so many mainstream country artists are NOT doing, which is speaking out about the need for gun control. Most artists at the CMAs wouldn’t even talk to reporters about the shootings at all, let alone bring up that we need a profound change in this country. There was a soundbite from an artist named Aaron Watson, who said “…we live in a world today where, if you say something, you know, someone’ll hang you out to dry”. The reported then mentioned that Watson is on a list of artists that are promoted by the NRA. Watson, according to the reporter, pointed out that bad people are going find ways to do bad things, so he won’t be campaigning for stricter gun laws.

That’s when I started rolling my eyes.

There was another soundbite from Watson at this point, where he said: “If I’m gonna start doin’ some preachin’ or some pickin’, it’ll be for our veterans, for our soldiers, for our school teachers, and for babies. I mean, those are things that are dear to my heart.”

THAT, friends, is when I fucking saw red.

This asshole is taking money from the NRA, first of all. He’s not an artist. He’s a fucking corporate shill. He’s a puppet with a hand up his ass, a mouthpiece the NRA uses to further embed gun culture into the psyches of Americans.

Second of all, how…and I mean FUCKING HOW…can someone claim to care for people like school teachers and babies, and be totally cool with the NRA? Does he think there were no veterans or school teachers that got killed at that festival in Las Vegas? Sorry, but the laws of probability are pretty firmly against you there, broseph. Did he forget all about the Newtown massacre, where all those little kids got blown away because some asshole had beef and was able to get ahold of guns and ammo? What about the babies…LITERAL BABIES…that were shot in Sutherland Springs? It’s easy for people like Aaron Watson to stand up after the fact and say they hold the memories of DEAD children dear, but the simple fact is that every child in this country is now unwittingly playing the odds every day when they attend school. Every teacher is playing those same odds when they go to work. All because of the fucking National Rifle Association and their insidious infiltration into so many aspects of our culture.

It’s not just country music stars, and that’s the depressing part. It’s sports team owners, it’s politicians…it’s the people who need help the least. They can afford home security, they can afford to send their babies to private schools where random people with guns would probably have a much harder time gaining access. The people with the money are not the people who need protection, and yet they are driving this culture of “I must protect my own” in this country and it’s NOT SANE.

Where does it end? How many more children, how many more people just living their lives, have to be shot and killed before the blood on the hands of those with power and influence stop being such incredible cowards? How many dollars in their bank accounts are enough before they finally start doing the right thing?

Let’s go back to that Aaron Watson quote from earlier: “…we live in a world today where, if you say something, you know, someone’ll hang you out to dry”.

Let that really marinate. What he’s saying, what they’re ALL saying, is that their incomes, their personal comfort, the lifestyles that they’ve become accustomed to, are more important than their fellow humans’ lives. 

I am not anti-gun. I grew up in a rural area with hunters all around me. I’ve gone target shooting and enjoyed it. I have no problem with responsible people owning reasonable (read: not automatic) firearms and reasonable quantities of ammunition. No one needs access to automatic weapons outside of an actual field of battle. No one needs to have hundreds of rounds of ammunition stockpiled in their home. No one with a history of violence should have legal access to firearms.

I don’t pretend to know how to fix the problem, but I do know that until the people with money and influence grow spines and stop being so god damned greedy, this shit is just going to keep happening.

If you got this far, here’s a picture of my dog and my messy living room for your troubles:



“Just nod and smile. She’ll tire herself out faster than you think.” – Junior 



5 thoughts on “impotent rage, part 372

  1. I agree with you 100%! That being said, I suspect a lot of the trouble is that people don’t know just how bad the NRA is. And I’m sure that’s one of the things they’re counting on. One of my very best friends likes them, but I doubt even she knows how political and stubborn they are regarding just the simplest of changes. *I* didn’t even know until seeing a video of “why I’m leaving the NRA”… they just aren’t what they were founded upon any more. And I think that fact got lost along the way somehow. Or it happened so slowly these hardcore members didn’t notice? I don’t know. I’m just too frustrated to make sense out of it all.

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    • And with the current climate, if you try to share any literature or videos about the NRA to try and educate people, you either get written off as fake news or accused of being intentionally divisive. It’s so crazy.


  2. Yeah, I’m not anti-gun either. Have a rifle or shotgun for hunting. A pistol for self defense AT HOME. I see absolutely no reason for anyone outside of the military to have AR-15s, AK-47s, M-16s or any other fully automatic gun. Those are strictly made for killing a lot of humans.

    Speaking of how trite thoughts and prayers are, have you seen this:

    I was standing in line at Michael’s this weekend and a couple women behind me were talking. Something or other happened and one of the women said to the other, “Tell her our thoughts and prayers are with them.” I rolled my eyes but… am I being too harsh? Prayers, fine, that’s offensive to anyone who isn’t religious, but… I think if something happened to someone I cared about and I couldn’t do anything but I wanted to show that I care, I would prob send them a message like, “I’m thinking about you and sending love.” I guess the difference is that that’s a private, personal message whereas generic “Thoughts and Prayers are with XXX victims” plastered all over FB is kind of an attention-grabbing thing. Like, look at me: I care this thing that happened.

    I don’t know where I’m going with this. Just, yeah, gun reform isn’t rocket science and it isn’t going to be the end of the world.


    • Public carry is ridiculous. Anybody that feels the need to tote a gun around with them in public has some issues that, frankly, that gun ain’t gonna fix. There was a dude who went to the same laundromat we used to go to, and he was strapped with a pistol EVERY time he came in. To do his laundry. It wasn’t like he was putting the laundry in to wash and then going out to roam the wild back alleys of Bradford, either. He would put the laundry in and then sit around reading a magazine just like everyone else. So unnecessary.

      I’ve been thinking about the ‘thoughts and prayers’ thing lately as well. My problem with it isn’t really on an individual level, so long as it’s being used in a supportive manner rather than a steering or judgemental manner (ie: not saying “I’m praying that you’ll stop being gay”). The problem, for me, is when people say it because it’s the ‘right’ thing to say, but then don’t follow it up with action to try and help the situation. It’s the original form of slacktivism.


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